Wednesday, September 8, 2010

Best Method To Get Your Ex back

Break up with your Girls/Boys ???Dont to be a headhace,now if you read my article you maybe so lucky if you find this.This article will open your mind.So keep reading till finish.there are 3 main steps here,but do action now,before its too late!!


If you are struggling with the aftermath of a breakup, it is quite natural that you will be asking yourself the question "can I get my ex back?" If this applies to you then I hope to help answer that question for you in this article. There are three different approaches that you can take to solve this problem. The direction you choose will very much depend on your situation, your ex partners personality, and to some extent on our own common sense and instinct.
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  1. The confrontational approach
If you take this path then you should proceed with caution. You may think this approach involves bursting into your ex partners home and arguing with them, or begging them to take you back. This is not what I mean by confrontation. Rather to carry out this method successfully you should "accidentally" be where they are. By bumping into them, and acting confident and happy, you will get your ex thinking about you. When you talk to them be friendly, but make sure they think you are doing it just to be friendly, and because they are in the same place as you. Not because you are still hung upon them.

This approach can get your ex to come back in a lot of cases, but beware it can have the opposite effect if you over use it. If you are everywhere they go, they will most likely end up moving farther out of reach. There is a fine line between meeting accidentally and stalking.

2. The laid back approach
I have seen this work, but it also has the least chance of success. On the plus side it also has the least chance of making things worse too. This method basically is the path of least resistance, and involves you letting the situation to develop at its own natural pace.

Don't seek them out, if you do meet let it happen naturally. When you talk to your ex the key is honesty, tell them how you feel. Apologies for any wrongs you did, and be upfront about your feelings for them, and your desire to have them back. You put the ball in their court, if they want things to progress then they will make it happen.

Remember the key is to be laid back. You must never appear to beg or be needy in any way. if this doesn't work at least you will still be friends with your ex.

3. The Combination approach
This is the method I think works best in most situations. The meaning should be obvious, but it basically involves taking the middle path between the two above methods. The way to play this is to start laid back and not initiating contact in any way. This will allow the emotions that are unavoidably present post breakup to settle. After this initial period you can become more aggressive and confrontational.

Start initiating contact, but use the honest approach of the second method, if you have a chance of rekindling things between you, then this will show you in the shortest time.

I hope the above helps you to see a path you can take, if you are asking "can I get my ex back?" You should feel free to use any combination of the above tips. Use your own instinct. After all you are the best judge of how your ex will react.

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